A Little Dirt, a Little Sun, a Little Water...


Frozen. That's how I feel. No, not because of the weather - the weather has been absolutely magnificent! I feel frozen because in my determination to finally begin learning how to garden, I've bought plants and just don't know what to do with them! How I envy the seasoned pros whose lush gardens seem to just magically burst forth from spring to fall!


I, on the other hand, am the owner of a few scantily clad landscaping beds and about an acre of possibilities. I know nothing of soil or pH balances, plant nutrition, drainage, or sun exposure. I am...afraid to begin in earnest.


{I love you, sweet and innocent little plant. I come in peace and I will try really hard not to accidentally snuff out your young life. }

I did plant some hollyhocks earlier in the week though I'm not sure if they are in the right location. I also spread some perennial wildflower seeds but I'm afraid I may have over watered them already.

And I've bought herb plants for an "herb tea garden" that I just don't know where to plant. I've been told that mint {and I bought several mint herbs - apple mint, lemon mint, and chocolate mint!} grow fast and can be invasive, so I've changed my mind about planting them near my other landscaping beds.


Now I'm thinking my herb tea garden could perhaps grow along the fence line out in the back yard, though it's not very convenient or interesting. I have romantic ideas that involve just stepping out barefooted through my kitchen door and collecting a few leaves for tea whenever it strikes my fancy. Tromping out through the back yard to the fence line {that borders our neighbor's unsightly backyard} is not part of my romantic imaginings. Also, the fence line gets full sun... nearly all the plants I bought say "full sun to part shade". I've been assured by others that they are hardy enough to accept full sun, though.


I read once, in a book by Celestine Sibley I believe, that you just have to plant, do your best, and see what happens. Nature is full of surprises and in most cases, all that is needed is a little dirt, a little sun, a little water, and a lot of patience. The rest just takes care of itself. As with anything else, you learn what works and what doesn't - and you simply try something different when things don't quite work out as planned. I need to try to remember this and not be afraid to truly begin!

{Thank you all for your support in my decision to cut back on my blogging time. It seems that many of you feel the same way and it's nice to know that I'm in good company! }

22 comments:

  1. The good thing about starting with herbs, is that they grow like weeds!! You will be pleasantly surprised at how beautiful your garden will be!
    ~kristin

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  2. You can plant mint wherever you like so long as you sink a plant pot into the ground first and plant it in there. It will look like it's growing in your bed but the roots will be contained. If you don't do that, prepare for mass mint takeover as it will spread throughout your garden. Enjoy! Oh, and promise me you'll plant some basil, mmm, nothing like fresh basil.

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  3. The best thing about gardening is that every year you get another chance to get it right! Start small and follow the directions on the tag. Most plants (especially herbs, as mentioned by prior comments) are very forgiving. Don't forget to have fun :)

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  4. Another option is to have a patio tea garden. Plant all those lovely tea herbs in large pots. This keeps them in check (they can't grow out of hand) and keeps them close to you. There are some gorgeous pots out there, too! Also even seasoned gardeners will tell you that you have to experiment in your yard. No plants make it all the time!
    Good luck! I LOVE gardening.
    Rebecca of the R&W Gals

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  5. For questions you may have, call your County Extension Agent. Free advice from the pros!

    Good luck . . . . herbs are a great way to start gardening!

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  6. Enjoy gardening, there is nothing more relaxing and joyful than watching those beautiful plants grow and produce! Yes that mint can be a bugger!! the pot idea mentioned by Jen M is a good idea, I have mint and it is in control of one part of my garden. Chinese lantern (not and herb) does the same thing, I love the way it looks but it is taking over!!

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  7. Sweet Kim,

    Approach your garden the way you approach renovating your home - research a bit and then just do it. Don't get too wrapped up in details. Pick a spot you will be happiest with - if it is near your kitchen just make sure you box them in - plant them and say a prayer. Make sure they are watered in the summer. Next year you will be asking for tips on how to prevent growth!
    I haven't watered any of my garden beds yet (we've had plenty of water provided by mother nature)

    Your Friend,
    Deborah

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  8. I agree with Celestine Sibley, rely on your instincts. I wouldn't say I have a green thumb but whatever I decide to plant usually grows. I research a little, but not to much because it keeps me from doing what I am researching. I agree with the previous comments, mint should be planted in containers. I think I might look into some of those varieties for myself. Here is what I plan to do this season:http://www.thediyspot.com/2010/04/garden-dreams/ Something tells me you are going to be a natural. Happy Planting!

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  9. I heard something once that really hit home for me - Even *experts* lose plants.

    No one ever starts out as a master gardener. I'm guessing most of the time and I've been gardening for 12 years. It also doesn't happen overnight. Sometimes you have failures and sometimes you're rewarded with beautiful success. Just do the best you can, follow the instructions on the plans as best you can and you'll be on your way. Just jump right in!

    I've never had a problem with mint, but if you're worried about it getting out of hand, you can also do an entire container garden with all those plants. My potted mint has always done better in a pot actually so that's my plan for this year.

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  10. I can so relate to your brown thumb, I am the same way. I have 2plants whose lives I'm responsible for and it scares me! We live in an apartment so we only have a deck...baby steps! Good luck with your herb tea garden:)

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  11. i don't know if this answer your questions...i started a new blog http://www.fleurgardens@blogspot.com you may want to see. :) gardening is fun & relaxing...at least for me! :) good luck!

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  12. you just have to plant, do your best, and see what happens.


    sooo true - some years when I have time and the energy to really work in the garden are not necessarily the best years because the weather won't cooperate...

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  13. I can so feel your pain! For the last 11 years Hubby and I lived on an island in Florida..where nothing would grow in the harsh wind and sea salt air. Though gorgeous, I really missed all the flowers and plants. I am also just learning and experimenting in our new yard in Virginia.

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  14. I'm trying to grow some fresh Basil, Oregano and Chives, wish me luck as I don't have much of a green thumb! Can't wait to see how wonderful you herbs grow!

    Oh and by the way, I have nominated you for the Sunshine Award on my blog, drop by and claim it sometime. Thanks for being such a wonderful inspiration!

    Melissa

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  15. I am so glad I found your blog. Love your home and your decorating style. Good luck on the garden. Herbs are great to start with. I never cared about soil this and that just planted in the right light and have had great success. Maybe a few beautiful pots of mint would be good to keep it under control and will give you some different levels in the garden till the plants get bigger.

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  16. We used to grow mint in containers when we lived on the West Coast (British Columbia). I recall they came back to life every year but here on the East Coast of Canada, we have to plant new ones each year due to the harsh winters. Huh!

    Then I found out that when planted in the ground, they come back each year with great zeal. We are lovers of mint but not so much that we want it taking over. My hubs built some cute containers using left over beadboard. They're still in great shape after four years. We plant several types of herbs in those containers and they're placed on our south-facing porch where they do quite well. Just make sure your containers aren't so small that your plants become root bound.

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  17. I think there's a bit of a learning curve in gardening. At least that's what I tell myself. I love gardening and try to expand every year and even though I'm getting better at having success, I still have a lot of failures. Oh well, I still love it even if it doesn't always love me back.
    ☺ Celeste

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  18. Warning: Mint will take over in a few years...I plant mine in lage pots and place the pots in the ground (pay attention to runners trying to creep out of the pots!! herbs are so much fun to grow - that's all I know about gardening!!

    Stop by Pandora's Box to enter a giveaway! ~patti~

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  19. Good morning! I am featuring your Monday post on my blog today. Good luck on your gardening endeavor. It is very rewarding! Have you considered a beautiful container garden on your back porch/patio for your tea garden? I love the picture you painted with your words - now I want one! Have a great weekend!

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  20. Such great advice and encouragement! I really, really needed that! I've been planting away this week, with no end in sight! It's wonderful!

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  21. http://giverslog.com/?p=6743

    I was just going through my blogroll and found this post on Giverslog for 13 tips on how to grow herbs. Perhaps it will be helpful.

    One thing I've learned about gardening. I will make mistakes. I also will make the right things grow in the right places if I keep on trying.
    Good Luck!
    Terri

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  22. Mint's not a big problem, especially if you plant next to a mowable lawn. I've ripped mine up and moved it a couple times and what's left in the edge of the lawn smells great when it's mowed. :) One word of advice on your hollyhocks: don't feed them! They thrive on neglect, so ignore them. And you won't get flowers this year, but next year they'll be great and start a cycle of dropping seeds so you have blooms every year! Signed, avid experienced gardener :)

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