Showing posts with label personal. Show all posts
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My Visit with Layla Plus New Wall Color



Good morning, everyone! I'm sitting here in the dining room looking out the window and while it looks so cold and dreary outside, I've got a toasty fire going, a candle lit, music on, and it just couldn't be more perfect inside. {Well, maybe if my house were clean it could be just a little more perfect...} I'm also enjoying three - three - bouquets of roses that Mr. You Know Who gave me throughout the week. How'd I get to be so blessed? The pink roses above were the first bouquet. They are like little summer stowaways, just tagging along with Fall, refusing to be replaced by mums and marigolds.

As long as we're talking about being blessed, a few weeks ago I had the privilege of having Layla of The Lettered Cottage as a guest here for a couple of days. What a delight she is! I've known Layla for a few years now and we've met in person a few times, but this was the first time she visited Twice Remembered. I was super duper nervous because we live in a fixer and our home is certainly not 'company ready' at this point, but you know, in the grand scheme of things, it's not things but people that matter...so I just got over myself and we both had a blast! The timing could not have been more perfect because hubs was out of town AND the kiddos were visiting a relative for the week....so it was just us girls here to goof off and have fun! {In my excitement, I completely forgot to take photos but Layla wanted a few pics of my signs so we snapped the one below...and she generously let me borrow it for this blog post. Thanks, Layla!}


One thing, among myriads of things, that I appreciate about Layla is that you get what you see with her. If you've read her blog, you can feel just how sweet, compassionate, funny, and down to earth she comes across. And she is exactly the same in person... She didn't give our unfinished projects here a second thought - even though she had to sleep in my daughters' very undecorated and unremodeled shell of a bedroom... and even though I don't have curtains or any kind of window covering in much of the house...and even though it took me forever to get ready whenever we went out because before she got here, I shoved a bunch of clothes into the closet in a massive pile and couldn't find anything...and even though I threw a whole lot of junk into the already junky studio - which she got to see, along with my even junkier garage and upstairs storage space. I think it's not just any person that you could feel comfortable showing your life as it really is - with all the ugly, messy parts included. Yes, I am certainly blessed to know someone like Layla and to have the opportunity to visit with her as I have. I just love her!


When Layla was here, it won't surprise you to know that there was lots of talk about projects and decorating. I had just finished putting a new coat of paint on the walls of the kitchen and living room. If you remember, I had planned on painting Twice Remembered ALL WHITE, with the exception of the red cabinets. Ultimately, though, the rest of the family wanted some color and I decided upon a cheery blue / robin's egg blueish color. Here is a sneak peek of the shade we went with and it is called "Blanket" {CI246 by Valspar found at Lowes}. Let me tell you, this color GLOWS! No kidding! In fact, I was kind of freaking out about it for a few days because it really changes with the light. In most parts of the house I loved it but certain spots at certain times of the day, it translated to more of a minty color. By the time Layla got here, I was thinking that I was just going to have to change it. Layla and I talked and talked about it, and I even tried another similar color sample, but it was much darker than what I had in mind. I wanted BRIGHT and HAPPY! I really did love the glow afterall and now that it has been up a while, I'm so glad I didn't paint over it right away. By the way, the nook you see is by our front door and was once a tiny coat closet. We ripped it out because I wanted a little spot like this for flowers and keys. I can never find my keys, though, so having a spot for flowers at least is lovely. :)




We're still working on painting - the story of our lives - but I can't wait to show you what the blue looks like in the kitchen! Based on what you see in the photos above, what do you think? Not that it is an option anymore with my families campaign against all white walls, but if you had to choose between this color {happy, cheery, and bright} or white {soft, relaxing, subdued}, what would you have chosen?

{I love the random little chalk drawing 'Love' person in the last photo. Not sure which of my kiddos drew it, but it sure makes me smile!}

Enjoy your day...and I hope you find some time to waste today!

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Love Note from a 17 Year Old Girl - 1991



A lady's imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to matrimony in a moment. -Jane Austen


I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you Jeff. I do. I do. I do. I love you so much. I love you more. I love you. You are so precious. I need you always. I love you forever. Think about you all the time. Can you read this? Could hug you to death. I love you. I love you. I love you. You I do love. Your gorgeous smile greets me every morning. I love you. I love you. I love you. My favorite person. Love the way you smell. Love the way you look. Love the way you wear your hair. Love the little things you do. Love who you are. Don't change. I love you. I love you. I love every square inch of you. You are the one. I don't want anybody else. I don't want to hold anybody else's hand. Only yours, yours, yours, yours. I'm so happy with you. I love to hear you breathing. I love to hear you laugh. I love to see you smile. I love to see you smile {at me}. I'm addicted to your love. Do you have any idea how much I love you? God's universe is not big enough to hold my love for you. I want to see you every day. I want to be with you every day of my life. I want you. I want to see you every day of my life. I want to run through fields with you. {You may laugh now.} I love your flowers. The flowers are you symbolically. {Except they die and you are indestructible.} I treasure my flowers. I treasure you. My flowers are beautiful. You are beautiful. Our flowers are unique. We are unique. I love you so much. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love your voice. I love you. I love you. I only think of you on two occasions - day and night.{not original} Jeff, Jeff, Jeff, Jeff. Couldn't stand to be without you. How do I love thee. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love your eyes. I love your nose. I love your cold ears. I love your chin. I love your mouth. Yes I do. I know you do but I love to tell you anyway. Jeff, Jeff, Jeff. I love your name. Kimberly Bouldin. I love that name, too. I am so fortunate to be loved by you. I need you forever. Us forever. I hope you can read this. If you can't I'll write it in the sky but it's not big enough. I love you. I love you. I'm crazy over you. Not crazy {mentally} because I know that's what you're probably thinking. I think of you all the time. In fact, in case you don't know yet, I'm thinking of you now. Thinking about how you always make me laugh. Thinking about your hair getting in your face when you play basketball. Thinking about my hamster. {I really don't know why.} I love you. I couldn't share you with anybody else. Forgive me for saying this, but I don't want to share you. I can't help it. That's what you do to me. If I weren't in geometry right now, I'd turn cartwheels. Can I tell you something again? I love you so much. I hope reading this doesn't hurt your precious little eyes. "The kiss that's in your stare haunts me day and night." I read that in a poem. I haven't kissed you yet but I stare at you often. My kiss is in my stare. Remember that. When I look at you, I can't help but think how much I love you. I'll never get tired of telling you that. Never. Never. Never. Never. I can't wait until 1994. 3 years. To me, 2 1/2. I love you. I love you. I'm so happy. Jeff, I love you. I hope you'll always be able to put up with me. I'm going to read this out loud to you at our wedding. {Just kidding.} If you are ever missing me, just pull this little note out and read it. I love you and everybody that loves you and everybody that loves everybody that loves you. Well, most of them anyway. I'm glad I'm almost out of school. I can't wait until next year. I can't wait until the next time I see your glowing face again. I love you forever and ever.

__________________________________________

Jeff did carry this in his wallet for about 18 years. The letter became pretty fragile, though. I have a whole box of letters between us... but I'll spare you! At seventeen, I had no clue about real life and all the things that go along with love and marriage and everything it entails...It was all sunshine, lollipops, and rainbows back then! We were married two years later. :)

{Happy 18th Wedding Anniversay, dear! I love you, I love you, I love you...}

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"To My Dear Girls..."



To my dear girls, Sydda, Lula, and Zuzu:

Dear girls,

By now I know that you've been told about me and that you must be very sad and upset. It is never easy for humans especially to lose those they love very much. But I wanted to make sure you knew how much I appreciated this wonderful, long, good life that you gave me. Even though I was never one to run and bounce around and play, I felt so proud and happy to wake up each day to a house full of people who loved me and cared for me so well. Even when I would just spend my days sleeping, many times a day, there was always someone coming up to me to say hello or to pet me or to tell me how much they loved me. I secretly kind of liked it when you would argue over who would give me a treat, because it showed me just how much you thought of me. Many dogs aren't so blessed as I was to live such a sweet, long life with children like you. Thank you for every large and small thing you have done over the years to make me so happy.


I know that it isn't natural for humans to lose those they love in death, and it's very sad for them for a while. But please know that for animals, death is very natural and we don't dread it as people do. Many animals in nature that are sick or reach old age, including some cats and dogs, will often go find a nice comfortable hidden place outside to fall asleep in death. Other animals rely on their humans to decide the right time. I know that my humans, you girls and mommy and daddy, have seen over the last couple of years the trouble I have had getting around. I could never say it out loud, of course, but if you looked at me closely in the eyes, you could see that I was in a lot of pain - pain that comes from old age. My bones hurt a lot and I hated to move, even when I took medicine for the pain. I still loved to eat, but lately, I could not even bring myself to get up for breakfast so mommy had to bring it to me. Walking hurt, and going up and down the few steps to the yard each day was very hard, too. I didn't enjoy going outside as much as I use to. So this is why I spent most of my time sleeping. Just like with people, it's harder to think about being in pain when you can sleep. As you know, instead of getting better, those of us that reach old age get worse. I know that mommy and daddy didn't want this for me, and I know that you didn't want this for me either. It was extremely difficult to decide to end the pain because mommy and daddy knew how much I would be missed, but I am so, so thankful that I will no longer have to struggle each day. In human years, I reached over 98 years of age, and that is a very, very, very long life both for dogs and humans. It doesn't happen often that dogs live that long, and I am blessed to be one of those fortunate few that did. Take cheer in knowing that it was in large part because of you, your care, and your love that I lived so long.


I know you will miss me but as soon as you are able, please think about the happy and fun times we shared together over the years. Mommy and Daddy and I wanted you to have a special day to remember my good life like you did the day Skyler the parakeet passed away. It is ok to smile and know that you were part of something wonderful - your dog living to be almost 100 people years! And it is ok to love Ruby as you always have. I did like the little dog even though she goes overboard with that squeak toy of hers sometimes. Like me, she had a rocky start her first few years before coming to live here, and I want her to experience to the full the happiness of having such a wonderful family, too.

As you're listening to this letter being read to you, take comfort in knowing that I gently fell asleep a very happy dog, and that I no longer suffer. This was the right and loving thing to do, and I appreciate you loving me enough to understand. I love you very, very much, my sweet family. Thank you for everything.

Love,

Cara Bella
{1996-2010}



We put our dear old dog of 14 down on Tuesday while our kids were away on a camping trip with their grandfather. We decided to not let them know that we had made the appointment because we knew their little hearts would be miserable and heartbroken during the days leading up to the vet visit. I didn't want to distress them before their long awaited camping trip or Cara Bella during her final days. However, we have been preparing them for the last couple of years - especially the last few months as Cara Bella's health declined, gently reminding them that she wouldn't live much longer, and may need to be put to sleep as we would not let her suffer. The kids were very good about doting on her and giving her extra special attention whenever they could. There were saddened and upset by the news, but not shocked. We had a special family meal in her honor last night and that helped to lift the girls' spirits. Of course, bed time - when goodnight kisses are often doled out to our furbabies - was quite a different story. It will take time, I know.

Edited to add: The first photo was taken the day we adopted Cara Bella when she was about 7 years old. She was severely obese due to an inactive life and being overfed before coming here. We were able to get her weight back down and even so, it surprised me that she was able to live so long considering the very unhealthy beginning of her life. We were fortunate!

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Our 500 Year Flood


I've had several of you who knew I live in Tennessee write me out of concern due to the recent flooding here. First of all, I want to say thank you all so much for dropping me notes to inquire of our safety.

I hope that all of you that were in the area are safe and suffered very little damage.
I apologize for not getting back to you right away but we had no internet for most of the day yesterday and it took a while to even get through to our internet service provider {I'm sure they were inundated with calls.} My family and I are just fine and only parts of our home flooded ever so slightly. My studio and our garage - the two low lying spaces in our house - received about 1/4" or so of water both Saturday and again on Sunday {more on that below}. But *nothing* compared to what others experienced.

I don't know how much the non-local news reported on this disaster, but is certainly going down in the books as "historic". A "500 Year Flood" is what it has been called. Much of Tennessee was affected along with a couple of other states, and never has anyone seen such a phenomenon in these parts. Throughout the state {Nashville, Memphis, Chattanooga - and small towns as well}, creeks that were normally a couple of inches deep and a few feet wide became 10+ feet deep and looked more like raging rivers. So any home especially that may have had a small ditch or anything of that nature near it was at risk. The waters even rose to the surfaces of bridges, flooding them or washing them out. The Cumberland River, which flows through the heart of Nashville, reached 12 feet above flood levels, flooding our beloved downtown area. I just don't think we as Tennesseans were prepared for such a disaster. There were 19 deaths that I know of.

This shot was taken by someone who lives in my hometown about 40 miles away. There is just something eerie about seeing things submerged like this.




Close to home, scenes like this were played out over and over again.




This is my friend's back yard here in my little town... Hubs took a similar photo on our street a few doors down with his cell phone, but I forgot to have him send it to me for this post. I noticed some of my neighbor's belongings had been moved out in their yard this morning with their doors open, trying to air out and clean up.


Just down the road a ways - this creek is usually just a few inches deep. Here it is level with the bridge.


The Opryland area...


Just exactly three months ago, the big blogging conference known as "Blissdom" was held here at the gorgeous Opryland Hotel. I didn't attend the conference, but did go to a pre-conference blogger meet and greet here where I got to meet and chat with Rhoda, Layla, The Nester, Kimba, AnNicole, Chris Ann & Kristen, Melissa, Becky, and many other beautiful bloggers. Now this year's Blissdom location looks like this right now. Restoration could take months. Ironically, those who were staying at the luxurious Opryland this last weekend had to be evacuated to a high school to sleep on cots. And, oh, do I feel sorry for those who had weddings scheduled here on Saturday!


Exterior of Opryland. I read that the flooding here was one story deep.


The famous Grand Ole Opry... *sigh*


This is an *interstate* running through Nashville - about 15 from where I live. The cars and trucks were bobbing up and down like apples.


You are seeing this correctly - that is a building floating down the interestate.
You can see a video of this here. I watched in horror as this unfolded on the news. Awful!


Here at home, as I mentioned, it was the low lying parts of our house that received water. This is the side of our house where some landscaping beds are and where the water crept into the studio. Next to the studio is the garage, and the water accumulated there as well.




Excuse the mess. When the water started pouring in, hubs and I had to make a mad dash to get all of our remodeling supplies such as drywall, trim, and boxes of hardwood flooring off the floor. What wasn't "perishable", we just tossed to the side.


A few of our backyard and the neighbor's backyard. We had a lot of water to the back east side of the house, too, but I wasn't about to step outside in the downpour to take a picture!


So here is the studio that we were working on when the rain hit. Hubs had just installed some baseboards, walked out of the room for five minutes, and when he returned, half the studio floor was covered in a quarter inch of water. And funnily enough, just the night before the flooding - about 12 hours before to be exact, I had started working on a project to freshen up our tile grout. Last night I was removing mud from the grout with a toothbrush, ha!


Another irony is that the studio is an important project right now as I am trying to reach a deadline for an article I'm writing involving the space. So this weekend we really needed to be knocking out projects in there. Instead, we were sopping up water on Saturday, washing and drying our towels late that night, and using them all over again on Sunday for the next wave of rain and water that came in. I ended up working in there anyway. The show must go on!

I hope that all of you that were in the area are safe and suffered very little damage. Hopefully we won't see anything like this again - even 500 years from now!






Thank You, Romantic Homes & Cottage Charm Giveaway Reminder



I am so honored that Romantic Homes magazine featured Twice Remembered in their "site seeing" section in the June 2010 issue. Though this blog has been featured once before in the first addition of the Cottages and Bungalows magazine {back when my blog was called "One Woman's Cottage Life"}, this is the first time any photos of our home were included. I'm truly thankful for this privilege - and will cherish this issue for a long time to come!


If you've discovered Twice Remembered through Romantic Homes, I'd like to welcome you to my little corner of the world. I apologize that due to time constraints, I no longer host the weekly Make Your Monday craft/project event, but feel free to browse hundreds of past projects. Also, there is a pretty comprehensive list found at Paper, Glue, etc. that includes many, many other current "link parties" held each day of the week. You are sure to be inspired by them and just may decide to join in by submitting your own project!

On another note, everyone is welcomed to participate in the 4th Annual Cottage Charm Giveaway event that begins Saturday, May 1st! I will have my own giveaway posted probably closer toward the

I'm looking forward to another great month long blogwide giveaway!
beginning of next week, but if you have one that you would like to go ahead and add {or if you would like to start entering your names to win giveaways on various blogs}, just stop in here Saturday morning to see the latest. For those that are interested in participating by hosting a Cottage Charm giveaway, please make sure you read the few participation requirements first. Thank you, and I'm looking forward to another great month long blogwide giveaway!





Some Important Blog News and Changes



I have some news for you. I wish it were happy and exciting news, but in reality it's the kind of news you put off telling because you hate to disappoint others. What is this all about?

I have decided to discontinue my weekly Make Your Monday link event. I've been thinking about this for a while, and now that I've had some time to consider all the pros and cons, I know that this is the right decision. I know you may wonder why, so I hope my explanation makes sense.

First and foremost, it boils down to a matter of time, or lack thereof. I visit all the links submitted each week, choose a few that really catch my eye {which is hard because there have been

Thank you all so much for your support with all the past Make Your Monday link parties!
so many great projects submitted!}, and post them as highlights each Sunday evening. Because of the volume of all the wonderful links submitted, sometimes this can take me up to 3 or 4 hours - or more! It really is a great problem to have, actually, but I'm afraid that when I honestly look at how much time I have available, there is simply not enough. For this month alone, I will be out of town for the next two Sundays, and who knows what summer will bring.

A secondary reason that I feel that this is a good decision is that there are just so many link parties in our blogging community right now, especially on Mondays. Again, another wonderful downside, but I feel better knowing that those of you who regularly link up to Make Your Monday will have somewhere else to submit your project links. Thank you all so much for your support with all the past Make Your Monday link parties - you made it a great success each and every week!

A Couple More Blog Changes

Within the next couple of months, you may notice a small change here at Twice Remembered. I've decided that after all of the contracts with my fabulous sponsors and other paying advertisers are up, I will no longer be displaying ads in the sidebars of my blog. I wanted to try a sponsorship program to see if it was "me" and though I think it could have worked well from a monetary standpoint, I feel that it isn't a good fit for Twice Remembered. I suppose my point is, I don't want to view my blog as a job where I must worry about and maintain traffic flow and visitor count and readership in order to truly do justice to paying advertisers. I want my blog to be the opposite of a job, in fact. I want Twice Remembered to be a respite of sorts for both visitors and myself.
Within the next couple of months, you may notice a small change here at Twice Remembered.
A simple place of quiet conversation over domestic affairs {and a large part of that happens to be our cottage remodel}. A "home" away from home to visit a couple of times a week, a haven in which to kick off the shoes and have a cup of tea or coffee - a quaint and cozy {tumble-down but slowly improving} place to relax without obligation or expectation. You will still see a few Google text links at the bottom of individual post entries, however not on the main page. I'm not ashamed to admit Google has been my "egg money" for years, a little something that I build over the months for extraneous projects. I've tried to put them in a tasteful, discreet location and I hope you don't mind them.

Just for fun, here are some home related goals for myself - and there is a point to this: cultivate a cottage style garden, grow a kitchen garden, get my business off the ground{!}, clean out and organize the attic, bake more homemade bread and other things to replace store bought versions, prepare better more wholesome school lunches {this has been requiring me to get up at 5:30am...but it's so worth it!}, decorate more cakes, improve my sewing skills, delve into photography a bit more, read more, take better care of myself, learn calligraphy, make room for letter and card writing {I still have to send those postcards out!}, more quality time with the family, make time for crafts, learn needlepoint {I ordered some really beautiful copies of antique patterns!}, have company over more often, and finally have that tea party I want to host for my elderly friends...That is just a partial list which doesn't include our many remodeling projects!

Here are my blog related goals: Do the things listed above, write about my experiences as I have time - once, maybe twice a week. Quality over quantity. Keep it cozy. Keep it quaint. Keep it real. Keep it simple.

In other words, maintain the cottage journal/journey type format that I began with many years ago.

I hope this isn't too disappointing for those that prefer blogs with frequent updates, but I've discovered that I just don't roll well that way. I can't keep up
I'm hoping that visitors here will come to view my entries as letters from an old friend - though not written daily, just as sincere and heartfelt.
that pace, live life, and be the person I want and need to be at the same time. I'm hoping that visitors here will come to view my entries as letters from an old friend - though not written daily, just as sincere and heartfelt. Blogging has opened up a whole new world for many of us, and just like you, I continue to try to find balance between it and actually experiencing life. I need more time to work on the cottage and to do all the things I've listed above, plus time to concentrate on priorities even greater than those listed. I hope you understand. :)

So that's about it - no new Make Your Mondays, no advertising on the main page when ad contracts are up, and once or twice a week blog posts.

Please feel free to share with me your thoughts on blogging and finding just the right balance. I'd love to hear from you!

Speaking of hearing from you, many of you had a few questions regarding my last entry yesterday about our beadboard progress. I will sit down and address those this afternoon {off to read to some second graders and to take my little one to the doctor now!}. Thank you for all your nice comments about our beadboard!



Have a beautiful Friday, everyone!

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Under the Weather



A few aches and pains are keeping me confined to my couch and under a cozy blanket today, and Ruby is determined not to leave my lap until I'm all better. Then again, even when I'm well, Ruby is determined not to leave my lap. She's just a sweetie pie that way.

Somehow between a party the little ones are going to today and a hobby themed event {geocaching} that they are attending today as well, hubs was able to get the garage straightened up to make room for what we'll purchase on our next big shopping trip to the Home Depot. We'll be getting our baseboards, door trim, beadboard wainscoting, and a few other odds and ends we need for the main areas of the house {living room, kitchen, and hallway}. I've been working on drywall mudding and am just about finished with the areas of our house that need to be completed before beadboard installation. If I'm feeling well enough tomorrow afternoon, we'll go ahead and get the materials. I'm not even sure I'll know how to act in a house with baseboards and door trim!

For now, back to my blanket and heat packs and trying to rearrange Ruby without disturbing her.:)

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Dear Daisies,



Dear Daisies,

Oh my goodness! The response from my last entry {"Compared to Others"} has been truly overwhelming. I knew that more than likely, a few others like myself have felt...hmmm...perhaps a little "less than" on occasion, but I had no idea how many readers it would strike a cord a with. I've learned that though it is often in our nature to try and see how we seemingly measure up to others, it is almost never a good idea. It will always be an apples to oranges scenario because we're all so different - different circumstances, different walks of life, different outlooks, different goals, different talents, different strengths, different weaknesses. There is simply no comparison!

In just about every way you can imagine, when I say that I do understand the temptation to compare, I really mean it! Well, you already know that I live in a tumble-down house which I'm not always particularly proud of. My neighborhood is far from charming and on my negative days, I see it as downright hopeless! Our budget is small and my time and energy are limited, so we're not the speediest DIYers in blogland, that's for sure! In our darkest times, we nearly lost this tumble-down house in it's far from charming neighborhood - and I remember thinking..."How depressing to have to struggle so hard to keep such a money pit in this ugly neighborhood! What's wrong with us?!"

But then there is the part of me that knows it's fruitless to compare - that as long as I'm trying my personal best in all areas of my life, then that is all that ever matters. As far as Twice Remembered goes and the neighborhood it happens to be in, I try to remember two things: There is potential in everything and Bloom where you are planted. Somebody has to take the steps to start improving a neighborhood. Why not me? Why not Twice Remembered?

For those of you who have been in or are in similar circumstances, or who are struggling to keep up with the heavy demands of taking care of a family, or who are working hard to get a business off the ground, or who are trying to grow a blog...just keep doing *your* best. That's all you can do. Otherwise you'll drive yourself crazy getting lost in all those comparisons we talked about, lose your enthusiasm, and just want to give up. No one wants that to happen!

Thank you for all your wonderful comments...I loved reading and rereading every one of them. And thanks for hanging in there with me as we slowly try to bring this place to life.:)

A couple of notes: Tomorrow I'll be posting some information regarding the 4th Annual Cottage Charm Giveaway event. I can't wait!

Also, please take a moment to visit Deborah at The Fairfield House. She is having a postcard exchange link party and would love to have you join!

Until next time, take care and have a wonderful evening!

~Kim

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Compared to Others (Life, Homemaking, and Blogging)



When it comes to your life, your home, or perhaps blogging, do you ever feel like the flower you see in the photo above? That flower right there. Come closer...


That flower - that little white daisy there in the middle, hiding among the masses of large, beautiful, vibrant flowers. Sometimes we may feel that our lives aren't perfect enough, our homes aren't fancy enough, or our stories and thoughts aren't interesting enough to inspire others. I know I've felt that way before. Have you?


We may feel like compared to others, our ideas about how to care for or decorate our homes, our projects, our words of wisdom, or our creative endeavors are small, so to speak. "After all," we think, "Who can compare to this...


Or those...


Or these..."


You might think...."I'm nothing at all, nothing beautiful, nothing inspiring, nothing big."


Well, just remember, everyone starts out somewhere...


Whether we are just beginning, starting over, or working from very limited time and means {like me}, we slowly grow over time as we work to make our house a home. Growth may not be visibly dramatic right away - but ultimately the most important kind of growing has nothing to do with our houses or even our talents and hobbies. If we are human havens for our family and friends, it doesn't matter in the least how our furniture is arranged or how crafty we are or how much traffic our blogs receive. Though we all so enjoy reading and writing about fluff, life boils down to our priorities and the people we love.


If you find yourself lost in a bouquet of comparisons and overwhelmed by thoughts that begin with "I wish I..., If only..., or I'll never be..."


Please know that it's all a matter of perspective.


When we compare ourselves to others, it's easy to forget how beautiful...


...how inspiring...


and how big we are in reality. You'll never be? But you already are!


Everything else, the fluff, will grow and progress and change over time. Enjoy doing what you do to make your home a sweeter place, but while admiring the beauty and inspiration of others, never underestimate your own. ♥

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